LOVE VS LUST

IS IT ONE OR THE OTHER OR DOES ONE COMPLETE THE OTHER?

This is probably not going to be about what you think it is of course my Sub Title may have clued you in on that. Who wants to live without the hope of love. Love makes getting out of bed in the morning easy. Love is four leaf clovers and unicorns. Love is everything that's rare and possible but worth fighting for. On the quest of love we are taught that you don't want to confuse love with lust. Lust is that thing that you feel when you see someone who has the attributes you like. Lust is that thing that makes you want to have sex with somebody after they kiss your neck or in my case just talk nice to you for two weeks with no inconsistency HELLO! Lust is the attraction, Lust is the motive of shifty guys that you can't trust. Some of these things may be true in certain contexts but I had me a little realization this week.

When I say lust I'm talking about that attraction. That thing that makes you look at him and your heart flutters and then fantasies ensue. I want him to open my door but comment on my walk away HELLO!

How many of us have had those people that loved us but you just weren't into them like that? Then you sit around trying to figure out why you're not into them in the way that they're into you. They would treat you nice and you would want for nothing but you know why you can't bring yourself to be or get into them? NO LUST! I watch it a lot with guys who will marry the girl they know won't go anywhere either because her self esteem is too low to be with someone who will treat her right or because being married to him brings her to her political peak however they spend all their time cheating with ones that drive them wild. And I'm sorry to have to tell you all that they even love the side one sometimes and I know that from my own live and living color personal nightmares. (for books later but I was always sucked in and denied some part of the story I've never been the girl who didn't "Care" about the wife/what she doesn't know won't hurt her, NO). There are A LOT of marriages taking place for political and social placement. However back to our subject at hand -----> The element they're missing is that lust. Lust brings love FULL CIRCLE. Lust makes you drive each other wild while love makes you loyal (if you're Loyal cause it sure the hell won't surgically put Loyalty in you if you don't have it). Love makes you talk your way (sometimes yell) through a disagreement but then lust makes you look over at them and although they made you so angry you suddenly get hot all over and even after arguing you are ready to climb them like a tree and break them off like a branch. I can only speak for me, I am an expert on me. I need both, I can't fully be invested and interested in you if one doesn't spark the other and I think if we shot you up with truth serum, you would agree. And guess what? That is okay. Especially in church, we're taught that lust is so bad and so sinful but in love it actually is a necessary component.

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