Top 3 Wishes Of A Good Woman
- Riecee Siren
- Sep 4, 2020
- 4 min read
Controlling Women Make Demands. Good Women Just Wish
In my 34 years here on earth I've been through a lot just in the area of Relationships. Observation can be the best teacher of all but unfortunately in this area I'm well versed in experience. The beauty of being scorned by love but not becoming bitter is you keep your optimism. Dreams are good in fact they're paramount even but life without Love or the promise and hope of it just isn't worth living. I've kept hope alive but I do know what I wish to God the man of my dreams would be like. No Man or person is perfect and I'm willing to work I just hope he is too!
WISH #1: SUPPORTIVE!
If you spend anytime with men (and I do because they're my Best Friends) you know that one of the key things they want from their woman OTHER THAN SEX is support. They more than want, they need their woman to be their biggest cheerleader and believe in every brilliant and idiotic idea and plan that they have. Never compete with him just believe in him. This is not a realization really but what is is that women that are driven need the same exact thing. What makes this a wish that makes my eyes instantly fill with water is that men desire it but they're not used to giving it. A lot of them don't really know how and sometimes that leaves us with holes in our most earnest desires.
WISH #2: CONSISTENCY
The best part of New Love is the way you get texts and calls early in the morning and in the afternoon, evening and night. That man is as excited about you in the beginning as you will probably be the whole time that you are together. There's nothing like the feeling you get when the phone lights up with their name but there is also nothing like the feeling you get when the phone is silent because now your loyalty and who and what you are has become expected and is no longer valued. Sometimes I've found myself wishing I could press reset on certain relationships just so I could do one or two things differently just to see if things would have remained as they were. We say things like "I'd give my right arm for etc". I'm gonna be completely honest I'm not giving up ligaments but I really do wish that I knew how to keep that consistency going. In the beginning some of those relationships had so much promise.
WISH #3: UNDERSTANDING
The whole men are from Mars Women are from Venus mantra actually rings very true. We do not process or reason the same way. So when one is talking to the other it could sound like the stupidest thing you've ever heard in your life but here is what I'm done doing. I can no longer entertain suitors who have this deadly thirst to debate, argue and be right. I personally feel like I'm too freakin old to argue. I just want there to be an understanding (oh God que the tears). If we are having a disagreement and you took something I said a way that I didn't mean it, I need to let you explain why you took it that way. This way I can understand how you process and this can keep me from upsetting or offending you in the future. I don't need to beat you in the head with "Well that's not what I meant" and therefore "It's not my fault that you took it that way". It's not any ones fault. If I love you I just want to understand you, I don't need to be right. Also if you love me how I feel may not be your fault but you should care about how I feel. My feelings should matter to you. I actually want to be happy so the time for pride ego and flexing is gone. And if it's not gone for you then you should find you someone who has those same relationship murdering traits and yall can just verbally slice each other up like bread. The more we understand the less often we can disagree and if we can do that then there is just nothing left but cotton candy clouds, lemon drop sunshine and tahitian treat rain drops......I MEAN SIGN ME UP!
Now of course chances are when you get with the right one all of these things are probably easily obtained and you may not have to give it a second thought. However for those of us who are still waiting on whoever the hell he is to arrive from wherever the hell he is, this one today was for us. Below I've listed the deets on this little outfit encase you like it. Afterall until we obtain Love we do still have Fashion #cheerstothat
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